Notes tab: shared and private notes and checklists; icon-only menu rail on short windows

- notes.js and the Notes tab: private, family or chosen-people sharing; checklist items change one at a time (no overwrites), with who ticked them; open lists refresh live; stale text edits are refused
- Pin, colour, archive, search, filters, ready-made lists, Share to Chat, send open items to Tasks
- The narrow menu rail shows icons only (names on hover) when the window is too short for labels
- Roadmap and README updated

Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

package.json

@@ -5,7 +5,7 @@
   "main": "server.js",
   "scripts": {
     "start": "node server.js",
-    "test": "for t in smoke tasks push users cal plex player lyrics signal mail mail-imap files podcast abapi abdirect books store librivox radio vbv savefiles bible lrclib visualizer body transcript recipes contacts mystore caldav musicdata screentime chat; do node tools/$t-test.js || exit 1; done",
+    "test": "for t in smoke tasks push users cal plex player lyrics signal mail mail-imap files podcast abapi abdirect books store librivox radio vbv savefiles bible lrclib visualizer body transcript recipes contacts mystore caldav musicdata screentime chat notes; do node tools/$t-test.js || exit 1; done",
     "audit": "npm audit --omit=dev --audit-level=high"
   },
   "keywords": [],