Family Chat (2.0): a built-in messenger for the family, phase 1

- Chat tab: direct chats and groups, text, attachments, replies, reactions, edit and delete, unread counts, search, drafts, mute and archive
- Live delivery over server-sent events; phone push for people who are not in the app (muted chats stay quiet)
- chat.js keeps conversations and files in data/chat; push.notify sends one person a notification
- Roadmap updated: phase 1 done, combined inbox with Signal still to do

Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

package.json

@@ -5,7 +5,7 @@
   "main": "server.js",
   "scripts": {
     "start": "node server.js",
-    "test": "for t in smoke tasks push users cal plex player lyrics signal mail mail-imap files podcast abapi abdirect books store librivox radio vbv savefiles bible lrclib visualizer body transcript recipes contacts mystore caldav musicdata screentime; do node tools/$t-test.js || exit 1; done",
+    "test": "for t in smoke tasks push users cal plex player lyrics signal mail mail-imap files podcast abapi abdirect books store librivox radio vbv savefiles bible lrclib visualizer body transcript recipes contacts mystore caldav musicdata screentime chat; do node tools/$t-test.js || exit 1; done",
     "audit": "npm audit --omit=dev --audit-level=high"
   },
   "keywords": [],