Parental controls: approvals lift bedtime, bedtime follows the child's clock, urgent push + banner + reminders for requests, reward cap raised to 60

Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

push.js

@@ -48,7 +48,7 @@ async function send(dir, st, uid, payload) {
   keys(); const { ref, ...wire } = payload;
   let changed = false;
   await Promise.all(st.subs.map(async s => {
-    try { await webpush.sendNotification(s.sub, JSON.stringify(wire), { TTL: 3600 }); stats.sent++; stats.lastOk = Date.now(); }
+    try { await webpush.sendNotification(s.sub, JSON.stringify(wire), payload.urgent ? { TTL: 900, urgency: 'high' } : { TTL: 3600 }); stats.sent++; stats.lastOk = Date.now(); }
     catch (e) {
       if (e.statusCode === 404 || e.statusCode === 410) { s.dead = true; changed = true; stats.expired++; }
       else { stats.failed++; stats.lastErr = String(e.statusCode || e.message).slice(0, 120); stats.lastErrAt = Date.now(); console.warn('[push] send failed:', e.statusCode || e.message); }
@@ -191,5 +191,9 @@ async function handle(req, res) {
   json(res, 404, { error: 'Not found' });
 }
 /** A notification for one person's devices (a chat message, say), unless they turned that kind off. */
+/** Time-sensitive (a child asking for time, a parent's answer): goes to every device at once, ignores the chat on/off switch and quiet hours, stays on screen until seen, and is kept in Notifications too. */
+async function notifyUrgent(uid, payload) { const dir = users.dirOf(uid), st = load(dir); if (!st.subs.length) return 0; await send(dir, st, null, { ...payload, urgent: true }); return st.subs.length; }
+/** Remember a person's time zone (the app reports it), so bedtime and reminders follow their own clock. */
+function setTz(uid, tz) { if (!tz || !validTz(tz)) return; const dir = users.dirOf(uid), st = load(dir); if (st.tz === tz) return; st.tz = tz; try { save(dir, st); } catch {} }
 async function notify(uid, payload) { const dir = users.dirOf(uid), st = load(dir); if (!st.subs.length || st.chat === false) return; await send(dir, st, null, payload); }
-module.exports = { handle, start, tick, localNow, notify, health };
+module.exports = { handle, start, tick, localNow, notify, notifyUrgent, setTz, health };